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Search - To Have and To Hurt: Recognizing and Changing, or Escaping, Patterns of Abuse in Intimate Relationships

To Have and To Hurt Recognizing and Changing or Escaping Patterns of Abuse in Intimate Relationships
Author: Angela Browne-Miller

TO HAVE AND TO HURT offers teachings for everyone, no matter what walk of life, gender, age, field, and interest level -- all in a very fair and clearly neutral way. This book can serve as a special gift to one's adult child, one's adult parent, or a troubled friend, or a happy couple looking to learn more about communication, or a fellow profes... more »sional, a student, a person in addiction or domestic violence treatment, everyone you know! When Cathy and John married 20 years ago, the relationship seemed almost charmed. But over the years as John's career became more established and Cathy raised the family of three children, things changed. First angry fights developed, followed by verbal and gestured threats of violence, and later, actual physical attacks and injuries. Several times Cathy called police, but when they arrived, fearing the social stigma as well as John's retribution, she would explain her injuries as dealt out by a prowler. When friends or family asked, she would claim the cuts or bruises were due to a fall or some other accident. But eventually, when her arm had been broken, a tooth knocked out, and her face bruised so badly she could not cover it up with makeup, she finally left the house and her husband--only to be stalked. Cathy and John are one couple that Angela Browne-Miller introduces us to in this book that looks at the increasingly publicized incidence of "intimate partner violence," abuse that takes place behind closed doors, inside marriages and other "loving " relationships. Only a fraction of this abuse is ever reported, so just a fragment of the problem is reflected in US national statistics that show nearly 2 million injuries and some 1,300 deaths annually caused by this so-called intimate partner violence. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. Moreover, look internationally and see that abuse in the home, including abuse of women and abuse of children has reached epidemic proportions. In this work, Browne-Miller uses vignettes, as well as standing and emerging research, to help us recognize the difference between a relationship being effected by normal stressors, and one that is abusive, or perhaps even deadly. Psychotherapist Browne-Miller details both healthy and hurtful relationships and shows partners how to recognize and change relationships on, or headed down, the path to abuse. And she also explains when we should leave a relationship, as well as how to do that to disentangle without further harm. This is a book that will interest not only lay readers who are involved in, or know of someone who is or might be involved in, an abusive relationship, or a great relationship, but also students and scholars of psychology, counseling, social work, women's studies, men's studies, peace studies, addiction studies and more.

ISBN-13: 9780275997205
ISBN-10: 0275997200
Publication Date: 8/30/2007
Pages: 256
Edition: 1
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Publisher: Praeger
Book Type: Hardcover
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Genres:

Health, Fitness & Dieting >> Mental Health >> Abuse & Self Defense >> Domestic Violence
Health, Fitness & Dieting >> Mental Health >> Abuse & Self Defense >> Sexual Abuse
Health, Fitness & Dieting >> Self-Help >> Abuse
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